The 5 Qualities of an Ideal Man
September 14, 2012 | By: Cristiane Cardoso | Posted in: Behavior, Blog, Family, Uncategorized
I already had it clear in my mind that I wanted to find the ideal man and at the same time, he was going to be the first man in my life. It was a difficult task and none of my friends believed I would accomplish it. They would advise me to have fun, go out and find a boyfriend, meet new people and have many experiences with guys so that, one day, I could finally commit to someone. But I had already made up my mind and I had never been so focused in my life.
If you are searching for the ideal man, here goes a list of 5 crucial qualities that he must possess in order to assume that position. If you are a candidate seeking to become an ideal man, work on the following traits:
1. Character – This is the main attribute in making another person happy. If a man’s character lacks truth, honesty and sincerity, then he lacks everything a relationship requires in order to survive. Beware!
2. Maturity – Immature men like showing off: they are afraid of commitment, they are insecure about their future and they are naive. There’s nothing worse for a woman then having to submit to an insecure man. A woman needs a strong and mature man by her side, one that knows where he’s going in life, that is brave enough to solve problems with his own hands and that will be able to care for her like any good husband should.
3. Intelligence – intelligent men think before acting or saying anything. This makes them capable of thinking about the consequences- giving women that extra admiration, respect and assurance for them. With so many women throwing themselves at married men out there, this is by far, a crucial quality to ensure faithfulness.
4. Compatibility – This is the quality that allows a man and women to fit well with each other like puzzle pieces .
5. Fear of God – The man that fears God will never betray his wife, especially when she’s not around.
When you find the ideal man, you become the ideal woman because only women that practice this, seek men that do the same.
Cristiane Cardoso
Author of the books "Better than a new pair of shoes", "V woman" and "Casamento Blindado" (Bulletproof Marriage). Founder of "Godllywood" and "Rahab Project". Presenter of "The Love School" at Rede Record.
SO TRUE!
if your a woman with such qualities,naturally the person you search for will have to match yourself. so am not too worried about making lists and guidelines, because i know what i want
Hello everyone, this is a very interest article with a very important information. Thank you Lord God.
The ideal man does exist when he is a man of God and fears Him! This is very insightful, this is something that i will look into and put into practice , so that I don’t commit any mistake!
First, we need to become the I deal woman for us to find the ideal man and vice-versa..
Thank you Mrs Cris for this wonderful tip…..
Thank you for this!
These tips were extremely helpful. To some people it may seem like common sense but sometimes, as women, we tend to settle (even being women of God) because we believe that maybe this one little flaw isnt that bad or we somtimes feel we are over reacting. I will definitely be looking for all 5 of these traits when I am presented with the opporrtunity for my “ideal man”
very nice post ms Chris, just before i got to the end i said the same thing, i need to find these in myself and i will find someone the same as me..:)
Thank youMrs Cris for the tips… Xxx
Dearest Mrs.Cris,
Thank you so much for this great tips.
its very helpful for us to learn more about the 5 qualities of an ideal man that will make us the right choices to make us happy in the future..
Kisses..
Amen the last comment just said everything!! Only women who are leak seek men like this.
Thank you for sharing Mrs Cris I’ll definitely take note.
Take care
xoxox
Thanks Mrs cris , this is so strong but if we’re look for the ideal men with all this qualities we must have all these qualities our selves.
Hello ,Mrs Cris
I Like the end bit where you are highlighting that only Woman who are like this themselves will look for Man like that only because alot of people live under an illusion that they will receive what they have not been sacrificing for .It’s like the saying goes No sacrifice ,No success so before I search for this qualities I must make sure I myself have them in me already.
So good to hear that from you Mrs Cris!
Its really a big help for us single ladies and just got an idea,
how should be the qualities of our ideal man, a husband to be
in the future. Too good to be true!
Thank you
~CANDY UCKG PHILIPPINES
Thank you mrs.cris for the advice. . it is a big help to us. to be always observant and use our intelligence in making decision and not only emotion. kisses!
-melanie uckg philippines.
Thank you Mrs. Cris
This is a very important tips for us Woman. People around me amazed every time I said that I have no boyfriend, because of our society today, youth are usually have boyfriend, having relationship that in the end will destroy their life because of their wrong choices. But we must be different because we know that God will prepare the right person for us, who will makes us happy and whom we will make happy.
Kisses.