Nowadays, one of the weaknesses of most men is a certain need. This need wasn’t so great a few decades ago when the wife had the habit of doing everything to please her husband… she was always willing to cook, care for his clothing and prepare everything for him at home.
During that time, the wife was the queen of her home. However, in our times she has become just another member of the household. Everyone has to contribute to the household chores, everyone has to get used to the family’s rhythm, who eats out nearly everyday and when they don’t, they reach for precooked food.
Ok, so things have changed, most times the wife has to work in order for her family to survive. However, there is surely time for certain activities, we don’t need to discard everything just because time is limited. And some of the things that don’t need to be discarded are appreciation, the care, the consideration, the respect and the desire to please.
The husbands that are not appreciated, that are objects of criticism, are needy men. Needy men don’t render much, they tend to work a lot to, perhaps, who knows, receive some appreciation. Sometimes they are even jealous. Sometimes they can’t communicate and they give the impression that they are ungrateful men, rude and absent. All of that is just a facade to hide their needs.
The wise wife appreciates, pleases and with her feminine essence makes him feel that he is the strongest, the most handsome and the most intelligent man on the face of the earth.
Author of the books "Better than a new pair of shoes", "V woman" and "Casamento Blindado" (Bulletproof Marriage). Founder of "Godllywood" and "Rahab Project". Presenter of "The Love School" at Rede Record.