#GODLLYWOODCHALLENGE

Godllywood Challenge # 7

33 Comments

June 8, 2012 | By: | Posted in: #GODLLYWOODCHALLENGE, Youth

“A vulgar woman is like an item on sale, exposing all for anyone to see, touch and try on. Thrown on top of boxes. Everyone picks up, tries on and throws down after. Cheap and without any protection. Her customers aren’t special either. They’re looking for the best offer.” Bishop Macedo

When we talk about a vulgar woman, what immediately comes to mind is a scandalous woman dressing provocatively, however, vulgarism is much more than that… see below some synonyms of this word:

•Banal- With no originality

•Common- Of little value

•Ordinary- Mediocre; that does go beyond common level
•Trivial- known by all

This means that a woman can even dress discretely but she can still be vulgar due to her behavior. When she is easily influenced by fashion, crowds, by the circumstances, she loses her originality and becomes like everyone else. A woman that isn’t worth much doesn’t stand out from the crowd.

When we find a piece of clothing on every corner, in the market – what do we conclude about its value? When no difference is made in this world, in other words, you’re a daughter just like every other daughter, a wife just like every other wife, a student just like any other student – you’re just like everyone else and also vulgar.

This week’s task is to firstly answer the following questions:

1.How do you dress? Would you consider yourself a discrete woman or do you like to wear clothes that call attention to your body?
2.How do you behave at home? Do you do what others (wives, daughters, mothers, sisters, friends) do or do you try to make a difference?
3.Which culture do you follow? Your own or every other woman’s in your society?
4.What value do you seek the most? Your own or one that comes from what you do and what you have ?
5.Do you influence or are you influenced?

When answering these questions to yourself, you will know if you have been vulgar or not. Your second task for the week will be for you to do something that makes a difference to other people too. Post something from the second task, on our page www.facebook.com/godllywood.

 

Be Sociable, Share!

Cristiane Cardoso

Author of the books "Better than a new pair of shoes", "V woman" and "Casamento Blindado" (Bulletproof Marriage). Founder of "Godllywood" and "Rahab Project". Presenter of "The Love School" at Rede Record.


33 Responses to “Godllywood Challenge # 7”

  1. Simnikiwe says:

    Thanks mrs cristiane about this qeutions bacause learnd a lot.and i will always learn.

  2. Lungile Mazibuko says:

    Hi Mrs Cristiana . with this shot paragraph i learned a lot and i thank you so much for opening my eyes because all those things that a vulgar women does some of them i used to do.wearing things that will calls the attention on my body,never mind to be on the streets for about two hours trying to call attention.but thank God cause today i,ve changed all those things that i was use to do. even if i speak i was used to flatter a lot but through this pies of story i know that i must be different from those of the world.the way i dress, the way i speak and the way i walk.Thank you

  3. lungile mazibuko says:

    hi Mrs Cris

    thank you for this task.i learned a lot that as a women of God i must be different from those who are outside the world.

    Thank you

  4. memory nomathemba maphosa says:

    hi Cristiane I AM FROM HILLBROW and its such a privilege to see my life change and being a differ. The way i dress to be a woman of god.acting like a woman of God and so many changes ahead of me I can see it from afar.Thank for your help.

  5. Linda says:

    I need to dress, clothe myself with the word of God. Thank You for God’s guidance. Tim 4v8

  6. joann says:

    Mrs Chris
    Indeed the inside must corralate with the outside, thank you for reminding us to strike the balance. If one is good and the other is bad, definately the wrong impression will be potrayed.
    Thanks.
    LVU

  7. nkosazana says:

    hi mrs cardoso
    i want to thank you for this task because it helped me alot
    i have realised that who i am and i am willing to learn more
    thank you very much

  8. gciniswa says:

    hai mrs cardoso

    i really apretiate about this and also i thank GOD to letting me know this and i willing to learn more

    Thank you so much

    • sandra ferriera says:

      I found the V Woman book very interesting as well as the magazine, it gives you so much information on what really happens in life
      thank you so much

  9. zoleka mhlana says:

    hi mrs cardoso

    thank you ,really this has been happing to my life but through this study i’ve learn a lot and i thank GOD for showing me that

    thank you so much

  10. nkosazana wetbooi says:

    hi mrs cardoso

    thank you for sharing with me this powerful study , really this has open my eyes today i do know that when i do samthing what are my intentions.

    thank you

  11. zoleka mhlana says:

    hi mrs cardoso

    thank you for showing me the direction,i am willing to learn more and thank GOD for letting to take part of this.

    thank you for sharing

  12. SIKELELAKUMALO says:

    HELLO MS CRIS.IM TRYING TO WEAR 0CLOTHES THAT PLEASES GOD AND AT HOME IM TRYING TO BEHAVE LIKE A CHILD OF GOD.

    SIKELELA KUMALO

  13. THEMBISA KHOBENI says:

    HI MS CRIS I`VE LEANT A LOT ON YOUR BLOG,ABOUT BIENG YOUR SELF,AND NOT INFLUENCED BY OTHERS BUT USE YOUR OWN STYLE.THANKS MS CRIS.

    THEMBISA KHOBENI

  14. thinamketsu says:

    hi ms cris today i learn even more than last week the more i vist this block i learn something new .

    THINA MKETSU

  15. unathitembani says:

    hi ms cris this is my first time to enter in this block and i want to thank you for teaching us how to dress our selfes and how to be
    have at home and at school and every where .

    UNATHI TEMBANI

Leave a Reply