Many women are deceived by emotions and by what they feel. It’s much easier for us women to be led by emotions, being that we are more sensitive. Because of this many women end up going down the wrong road.
Here are some examples:
Sees or meets someone for the first time and immediately thinks: I’m in “love”! How can you “love” someone that you just met? How can you “love” someone that you know nothing about? Unfortunately, many think that they do.
You know that that person is not right for you, but because your heart (emotions) speaks louder than your mind (reason), you end up getting in a bad relationship and later on end up regretting it.
You watched a romantic movie, you were moved by what you saw and start to want and look for someone like the character you saw in the movie. Again, emotions. Let’s be real, you’re not going to find someone like that. (That actor in true life is not like that…)
Many are desperate to find someone or are afraid of staying alone and “fall in love” with the first person that comes to sight. Do not fall into this mistake. You must analyze very well the person you are interested in. Get to know him, what are his interests, ideas, beliefs, etc. and above all, his faith in God.
My dear friend, don’t be fooled by what you feel. Emotions only lead us to the wrong way. True love is not known by feelings or emotions but by actions, by what the person does, is and the way he acts.
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Author of the books "Better than a new pair of shoes", "V woman" and "Casamento Blindado" (Bulletproof Marriage). Founder of "Godllywood" and "Rahab Project". Presenter of "The Love School" at Rede Record.